People talk about s3xual compatibility, "what if we are not compatible", how many ladies or men will you sleep with before you find the s3xually compatible one? What if he is s3xually compatible but stingy? Emotionally manipulative, a beater and so on. Will you settle for someone like that has long as "s3xually compatible"
Will you even be in your right mind to have s3x with a s3xually compatible patner that treats you like trash.
This is true, but we are hypocrite!
How many men will genuinely date a lady without asking for s3x?
Men feels entitled to a woman's body, especially if you happen to be their girlfriend. It wont be hard hearing words like "you're punishing me" "you dont love me" how am I punishing you oga? angry
Worse off for a lady that has been involved with a guy before, men feel ladies like this do not have a right over their bodies anymore. It doesnt matter to them whether she wants to really get it right this time.
Sometimes we need to do a self evaluation, think about all the guys and ladies you have had s3x with. Especially men, think about the ladies you intentionally lured to bed in the name of marriage, girls you broke their heart by getting them to be yours through s3x; what has it profited you? Okay maybe a little boost of self esteem, but at the detriment of someone's emotional wellbeing. You can do better guys. kiss
I am of the opinion that men and women that are genuinely looking out for partners to get married to do not put s3x first, because they are aware that s3x doesnt keep a marriage. It takes more than that. With all the premarital s3x and s3xual compatibility going on, see the rate of divorce all over the world.
Lastly, peoples view about marriage are different, there are men and women that do no want to get married, should they deny themselves s3x because of this?
Abstinence is for our own good as long as both patner comes out clean, no lies.